Reality Check

Let me do this before I lose my nerve or train of thought...

AHEM!

So I wasn't "lucky" to be mixed with Indian, Puerto Rican, Mexican, or some other kind of exotic mixture. I was lucky to be mixed with Caribbean. In other words, I'm full BLACK! I didn't get "picked" to be rich or wealthy for that fact. I got "picked" to do what I can and make do with what I have. What I have is the skill of work. I work hard to get what I get and make what I make. I'll be damned if I let you take that away from me when you feel the need to. I did NOT get the genes to have a big butt or humongous chest. My body is what it is. There will never be any reducing or enhancing anything that I have. I wasn't "blessed" with the best fashion sense, but I'm not going to whine and cry about it. I make do with what I have and buy what I love. I wear sneakers a lot because they're comfortable. Don't get me wrong, I can get up and go in heels, flats, sandals, etc. Most of the time though, I just want to be comfortable. If that's a problem with you, please please please give me the money so I can use it to buy what YOU like. Just because you think my wardrobe consists of only sneakers and jeans, doesn't mean I don't have anything else. I have plenty of skirts and dresses, I just feel the need to dress up EVERYDAY or ANY DAY for that matter, just to please someone else. Oh, and here's the BIG one; JUST BECAUSE I WEAR A LOT OF SNEAKERS AND JEANS, IT DOES NOT, I REPEAT, DOES NOT MAKE ME GAY! I've heard this a lot. Someone said the other day, if you were a tomboy as a child, you're most likely going to be gay. This is not true at all. I was one of the biggest tomboys; never played with Barbies and I liked to kick it with the guys. They always seemed to have more fun. Ending that, females are not my attraction in any sort of way, shape, and/or form.

The point is, this is life. No one is going to change that! Sure, you can change the way you live it or or change the way you view it, but you can't change life. It's a reality check. Some of you need to get your own reality in check.

If you read this, thanks. If you didn't, thanks. I really appreciate your view.